Tuesday, May 20, 2008

Monday, May 19, 2008

A Gift Very Few People Have

Denise,

Let me start by saying it has been so hard to write any note to you Denise because it then seems too real. I will not get to laugh with you for a time!! Coming is your day of remembrance and I wanted Shark to know we loved every minute we had with the two of you!!

You made such an impact on everyone around you in your short time here. When I told the kids that you now were at rest, Dillon said, "Denise and I were so much a like". I asked him in what way. He said, "We both love to cook". You made him feel so special while in your home and that was his fond memory of cooking with you! Your ability to make everyone feel special in a unique way is a gift very few people have. We will miss you!!!! I will see you again!

Joanie Schultz
(sister-in-law)

Sunday, May 11, 2008

Mother's Day to Tiny Bits

Today is Mother's Day and oh my dear Denise, you are missed. I'm spending it with your sister and her wonderful family and we are a great comfort to each other, but we'll all be thinking of you and the sweet memories of the many Mother's Days you made so special. I consider myself so blessed for the 52 years you were in my life. You were a delightful little girl always happy and eager to help except for doing the dishes of course!

My favorite Mom's Day story is when you were about five years old and we were having breakfast and I pointed out that it was Mother's Day and I should be having breakfast in bed - you looked at me very calmly and said "well why don't you take your plate into the bedroom and eat in there"? I laughed then and still laugh about it. Yes my darling daughter, you brought so much laughter and happiness to my life.... the many trips with you and Sharkey, the talks about books, movies, theater and travel and the humor, always seeing the funny side of a situation, your amazing strength and courage and of course the hugs, the wonderful hugs!

By the way hon, Jeneine and I were ready to get into their pool for a swim and suddenly there was a white butterfly, so we know your spirit will always be with us as well as your love and laughter.
Love and Hugs,
Mom

Thursday, May 8, 2008

Hey Sis!

You’re never home when I call. What the heck? Where are you? One day we were discussing getting through this, the next your not answering the phone. I have a lot to talk to you about. I have some heavy life changes coming and I’d like your opinion. I’m not dealing well with this not answering the phone stuff.

I need you to tell me that it will be OK.
That you’re proud of me.
That you love me.
I love you.
I miss talking with you.
So call me.
I’ll be waiting to hear from you.

Can you even read this?

Until then, Love Bro.